Breath Breaks: Quick Techniques to Shift from Stressed to Calm

How stress sneaks into your health, why you need more “brake” time, and two simple breathing exercises that work—fast!

Stress isn’t just a mental thing, it’s a full-body experience, and it can quietly sabotage your health even when you don’t feel stressed.

For the Type A, gotta-get-it-done women (and honestly, that's a lot of us these days), slowing down feels impossible. But while you’re powering through your day, your body might be quietly waving a white flag.

If we listen to our body whisper, we won't have to listen to it scream.

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The Science of Stress: What’s Really Happening in Your Body

When you’re running on autopilot, juggling a million things, or just feeling the pressure of daily life, your body flips into “fight or flight” mode—the sympathetic state. This is your nervous system’s gas pedal, designed to help you survive danger, but absolutely not meant to be stuck on 24/7.

Here’s what happens physiologically:

• Heart rate and blood pressure climb

• Breathing gets faster and more shallow

• Muscles tense up

• Digestion can slow down (constipation, bloating) or speed up (nervous stomach,

  bathroom urgency,etc.)

• Stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline surge

  
  

Short bursts of this response are normal and can even be helpful at times.

But when you’re living here day in and day out, even if you don’t feel “stressed", your

health can slowly take a nosedive in the background.

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Why Chronic Stress Flies Under the Radar

We’re so conditioned to “push through” that stress often becomes our baseline.

It’s easy to ignore the warning signs until they get loud. Things like:

• Trouble sleeping (can’t fall asleep, can’t stay asleep, or waking up tired)

• Sugar and carb cravings that just won’t let up

• Weight that refuses to budge (or keeps creeping up)

• Low energy, brain fog, mood swings

• Digestive drama (constipation, diarrhea, bloating, reflux)

• Hormone imbalances, blood sugar swings, and more

Even if you’re doing everything "right” with food and workouts, chronic stress absolutely will sabotage your progress.

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Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic: The Gas Pedal and the Brake

Your nervous system operates with two main modes:

Sympathetic (“Fight or Flight”):

• The gas pedal. Gets you through emergencies and busy days, but if it’s always on, your body never gets the chance to recover, heal, or even just breathe.

Parasympathetic (“Rest and Digest”):

• The brake. This is where your body repairs, digests, balances hormones, burns fat, and actually feels safe. Most of us need a lot more time with our foot on the brake.

The real issue?

Many of us are stuck running the sympathetic system in the background, not even realizing it, while our health slowly declines.

Throughout my coaching program, we work on building more of these moments into your day if this is something you struggle with—not just with breathwork, but with other tools and simple tweaks that help your body feel safe enough to thrive.

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Why Breathwork Works (Even for the Busiest Schedules)

Meditation, yoga, and long walks are wonderful, but when you’re short on time (or patience), simple breathing exercises are a practical way to shift gears.

I use these myself and with clients all the time—they’re quick, effective, and require nothing but the desire to reduce stress.

Just a minute or two can help your body hit the brakes and move into “rest and digest.” It's seriously the best bang for your time buck!

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Two Fast-Acting Breathing Techniques

1. Box Breathing (Four-Square Breathing)

A simple, structured breathing exercise that calms your nervous system and helps you feel more centered.

How to do it:

1. Sit comfortably, feet on the floor. Close your eyes or soften your gaze.

2. Inhale through your nose for a count of 4.

3. Hold for a count of 4.

4. Exhale through your mouth for a count of 4.

5. Hold for a count of 4.

6. Repeat 4–6 times, or as long as you need.

   
   

Why it works:

Box breathing helps regulate your nervous system, lowers stress hormones, and brings your focus back to the present moment. It’s great before a big meeting, when you’re feeling frazzled, or anytime you want to reset.

See it in action. 

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2. The Physiological Sigh

A fast-acting, science-backed way to reduce stress and anxiety. This technique mimics your body’s natural sigh reflex, which helps release tension.

How to do it:

1. Take a deep inhale through your nose.

2. Just before you finish inhaling, take a second, shorter inhale—like you’re topping off your lungs.

3. Exhale slowly and fully through your mouth (like a long sigh).

4. Repeat 2–3 times, or until you feel a sense of relief.

   
   

Why it works:

The physiological sigh quickly lowers the body’s stress response by increasing oxygen and signaling your brain to relax. It’s especially helpful in moments of acute stress or anxiety.

Watch a demonstration. 

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Quick Tips for Real Life

• You can do these techniques anywhere—at your desk, in the car, before bed, or whenever you need a reset.

• Don’t worry about perfection—just focus on slow, controlled breaths.

• If you get lightheaded, pause and return to normal breathing.

Building these tiny brake moments into your day is something I work on with most every client.

It’s not about attempting zen 24/7, it’s about giving your body a fighting chance to recover, heal, and thrive.

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